By a sad, confused fellow
I am a man aged 34. I am married with two children. I don’t know how people will take it but anyway I have to say it.
I have a child from outside marriage who I got after impregnating my wife’s best friend. I asked for forgiveness and was forgiven by my wife.
This time around, my wife’s cousin is two months pregnant for me and my wife doesn’t know yet. I impregnated my wife’s cousin when my wife took our children for a one week holiday to her parents’house. I didn’t know her cousin would get pregnant.
My wife’s cousin has told me that she will keep the pregnancy. Even at gunpoint, she can’t terminate it because she loves me so much. I don’t know why she’s being so childish over this issue.
I don’t know how to describe this situation that I am in. I love my wife so much and I can’t afford to lose her. I don’t know the kind of devil that wants to ruin my marriage.
I love my wife more than any other woman. She won’t accept this especially since this is the second time that I am disappointing her.
I am feeling weak and need words of advice or encouragement from my brothers and sisters on social media. Is it okay if I can deny my cousin’s wife pregnancy because I have no option right now. Please advise.